Date/Time: October 5, 2018,10am
Location: CIES Student Lounge
Topic/Skill: Critical Incident
Meghan and I talked about the critical incident.
I explained my experience in US last year to Meghan. I dreamed about very friendly relationship with neighbors before I came to America mainly because I lived only in high rise apartments in Korea that gave me little chance to talk to neighbors.
But I went through hardship of relationship with neighbor due to a huge dog that belonged to her; I felt a little scared because the dog's size seemed like a horse to my child at that time, and I've never had a dog before.
Although our family really wanted and tried to make a good relationship with the neighbor, it wasn't easy for us to be comfortable to see the dog's poops in our garden often, and jumping into our porch and barking at night.
We asked whether the house owner could build an ordinary fence that many neighbors had for the reason related with the neighbors' dog. But they seemed to talk to my neighbor to take more care of the dog.
Afterwards, my neighbor seemed upset. It was very hard for our family.
I'm not sure this can be one example of the critical incident. But I heard the dog in America is more like a family member, not just a pet. I've never had a dog, so I tried to understand the neighbor, but the situation was already not easy.